The Dress Code is Unfair to Girls!
May 23, 2018
Do you think the dress code is fair? Many girls think that the dress code is unfair to girls. Many people have noticed how girls are always getting in trouble for what they wear and that boys are never getting in trouble for what they are wearing. Some of the dress code policies that girls don’t like are: shorts have to be finger lengths and that tank tops must be three fingers.
Many girls think that the dress code is unfair. 80% of 16 girls, at West Middle School, think that the dress code is not fair to both genders. But 80.7% don’t like the dress code. We only talked to 16 girls but a lot more people at West Middle School who think that the dress code is unfair.
We asked some girls how they would change the dress code: “I would change it where we could wear shoulderless shirts because SHOULDER ARE NOT OFFENDING AT ALL!” Chloe Pangborn answered. “Not make short requirements ‘fingertip length’ because everyone’s arm and torso lengths are different,” stated Rachel Limpan.
The reason that girls think that the dress code is unfair to girls is, “Because the dress code only applies to girls, and only girls get dress coded,” Rebekah Stopford claims.
Ainsley Lloyd says, “All boys shorts are to the knees but girls shorts are shorter than fingertip length. Boys can get by easily but girls are dress coded all the time. And girls can’t show their shoulders which is unfair.”
There were also some girls that think the dress code is fair and does not need to be changed.
We talked to Mrs. Howe, a counselor at West, and she explained why we have the dress code. She says how clothes that don’t follow the dress code are distracting to students who are trying to learn. Mrs. Howe states, “Also, especially, for females, we don’t want them to wear something and then someone makes them feel really uncomfortable.” Mrs. Howe does say that the dress code mainly affects girls, she states, “Now, basically in this day and age, yes it mainly affects girls.” She also says, “ Yes, there are short shorts out there, but there is a time and a place to wear them and school is not one, but right now boys shorts are long.” Mrs. Howe thinks that the dress code is fair and that clothes that don’t follow the dress code should only be worn outside of school.
The dress code policies are shorts and skirts must be fingertip length even with leggings. Garments should not expose underclothing, shirts must cover shoulders, no bare midriffs, no sunglasses, no discriminating clothing, no clothes that are considered dangerous, for example, wallet chains and pointed rings, and no hoods up inside the school.
Teachers and staff have the right to ask you to change if clothes are too distracting. For more information on the school’s dress code, look at the K-12 student handbook. Those are the rules in the dress code, but not everyone agrees with them. If you think that the dress code is unfair, you should talk to the counselors or principal to try and change the dress code!
Gracie L. • May 9, 2022 at 8:27 pm
I am a 16 catholic girl and i think dress codes are demeaning and unfair to girls also! I am recieving my sacrement of confirmation on May 29th and my parish has a dress code for the confirmands.The boys have to wear a suit and tie but the girls dress code is demeaning! We have to wear a white,poofy,short sleeve,floor length dress with a veil,tights and white mary jane style shoes.The most unfair part is under our dresses we have to wear a white tee shirt with a 10 ply thick cloth diaper and white adult size plastic pants under our tights! This is so unfair and degrading to us girls and the parish says we have to wear them to enhance our purity and represent the purity of our baptisms! Many of the girls in my class dont agree with the tee shirt,diaper and plastic pants requirement and the dress code is absolute so we HAVE to wear the outfit!In the past the girls in past classes have said that the boys gawk at them and the girls feel embarrassed! Have any other catholic girls heard of this or experienced this?
Heather B • Oct 10, 2022 at 7:26 am
To Gracie L.-Yes,it is even worse at my parish.For Easter vigil baptisms and group and individual baptisms,all girls 17 and under have to wear a white,poofy,short sleeve,knee length baptism dress and bonnet with lace anklets and white patent leather shoes and under the dresses a white tee shirt with a cloth’baptism’diaper and plastic pants! I was baptized at age 16 and had to wear this outfit and me and the other girls being baptized all felt weird and like infants!
lilly • Apr 28, 2022 at 3:53 pm
It makes us feel like from a young age we need to hide and be ashamed of our bodies.
Arabella • May 9, 2022 at 10:35 pm
They do it so girls can be sexualized by a young age. This is so wrong. I swear, if they make it so it’s illegal to get an abortion we as girls will have to come together and riot. At best, tell the boys to come along and wear skirts to rile them up. In 30 states, it’s legal for a child to have a gun so hang in girls. BTW if you are told to change stand up to them. They should consider it sexual assault to dress code girls this way! Sorry for it being so long!
Kayla • Jun 23, 2022 at 9:29 am
Here’s what doesn’t make sense. Boys can play skins and shirts basketball and their bellybuttons are showing. Which is fine, who cares. But a girl in a crop top cant show her bellybutton. Why is one genders bellybutton ok and one isn’t.
Gabbi • Mar 21, 2022 at 9:05 pm
The dress code is not Faire the girls are not allowed to show our skin we are told to not show our bodies or cuves
Shyterica Jenkins • Dec 21, 2021 at 6:15 pm
I don’t get it about the sunglasses like that’s dumb
Brianna • Dec 2, 2021 at 8:27 pm
They say that if girls wear shots it distract of the people from learning. But are they really distracted? Have the adults at a school ever asked anybody if the shorts a girl wears distracts them?
Shyterica Jenkins • Dec 21, 2021 at 6:14 pm
I don’t get it about the sunglasses like that’s dumb
Amaris Vargas • Nov 15, 2021 at 5:06 pm
The dress code is not fair it is very sexist and does not affect boys at all.
ky • Oct 18, 2021 at 12:32 pm
It’s annoying how people can really say girls dress code is fair. NO ITS NOT YOUR ONLY SAYING THAT BECAUSE YOU DON”T KNOW WHAT THEY GO THROUGH!!!
Abigail Young • Oct 6, 2021 at 10:50 am
My dress code is quite unfair there is no one to stop the sexist things that are going on. The boys are never getting dress coded but the girls are.
anna • Sep 17, 2021 at 12:57 pm
dress code is something that should be fair to both genders i mean we cant be our selves it is really hard in the morning to fing something too wear that i know i wont get dress coded in.
Aubrey • Sep 12, 2021 at 4:52 pm
The dress code is totally unnfair because when i was in Old Navy looking for clothes and i wanted a tank top but the dress code said that you can t wear a tank top. But the dress code shoulld apply to every boy and girl and not jjust girl
Shyterica Jenkins • Dec 21, 2021 at 6:16 pm
Exactly!!
katelin quinn • Aug 27, 2021 at 7:17 pm
Hey, i agree 100% the boys need to focus on themselves boys can sag down the hall and not get dress coded its sexist
John • Aug 23, 2021 at 4:24 pm
I don’t understand what is so bad about dress codes. I’ve been obeying dress cods or over 10 years, and I don’t see how it’s out of my way or a hassle. Dress codes exist to prevent distractions and there are some weird people who like to see parts that shouldn’t be showing.
Shyterica Jenkins • Dec 21, 2021 at 6:41 pm
I kinda do agree on that part
Arabella • May 9, 2022 at 10:37 pm
But read the thing.
Chippy Jamerson • May 29, 2021 at 12:05 pm
The dress code has way less options for men. It is not socially acceptable for a man to wear women clothes but for a women to were men clothes it is okay.
Grace • May 19, 2021 at 9:54 pm
I think it is sooooo unfair that I cant wear a tank top that is showing my shoulders with an overall over it yet boys can take off their shirt if there´re hot when its like 100 degrees out.
G • May 13, 2021 at 4:25 pm
I know other people have said this already but I think that girls really shouldn’t be the ones getting dress coded. So you’re basically telling me that because boys have to be checking me out while I’m in class I’m supposed cover everything? How is it our fault? If guys can’t control themselves they shouldn’t be blaming us. It isn’t fair at all. And about the shorts, maybe stores could make longer shorts for girls, not only for school though, because some girls like wearing longer shorts too. Also a lot of guys in my class are way busier putting their coat on their heads and saying stupid jokes that don’t even make sense than looking at my shoulders. These things really frustrate me
bailey • May 7, 2021 at 1:40 pm
Yeah it is so unfair what the heck!
Cassidy Call • Apr 21, 2021 at 11:36 am
I think that school dress codes are very unfair. The girls at my school get more dress coded more than the boys, which isn’t fair. Boys and girls should get dress coded equally than just the girls getting dress coded.
cloud • Apr 12, 2021 at 2:14 pm
istg. boys (or at least the boys i know) care more about getting away with looking at memes insead of schoolwork than if my tank top is three fingers wide or not. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEE this annoys me!
yadelee • Apr 12, 2021 at 8:21 am
this is unfair to us girl we wanna be free with what we wear it’s not our fault boys cant handle the self it’s stupid that you have to wear a tank top 3 finger length who is even attracted to shoulders WERE NOT OBJECTS
these “dress codes” rules make girls feel bad about their bodies like no matter what, their body is not something to be proud of, and that stays with them.
WE ARE PROUD OF WHO WE ARE
gabriella • Apr 7, 2021 at 5:57 pm
i cant where skirts or shorts
sara • Apr 7, 2021 at 10:35 am
I do agree with all of you guys I’m doing a presentation about dress code and reading these was very helpful.
Bella • Jan 21, 2022 at 3:54 pm
Same and I’m also doing a petition to fix dress code at my school
No Name • Apr 6, 2021 at 12:19 pm
This is totally wrong because not all girls go to school to show off to boys, if these guys can’t control themselves they should be talked to and girls should not be punished just because some guys are total perverts. I don’t think schools actually think about the dress code before they write it because What about the girls who are lesbian? What about the guys who are gay? they don’t seem to think about these things. Boys are rarely dress coded and it is wrong because some guys show their underwear while their pants sag, some wear tank tops that show more than what a girl shows when she wears one. If a guy is not able to control himself the principal or teacher should talk to him and not feel the need to send the girl home or give her detention for what she is wearing. I understand things like short-shorts are inappropriate for school, I am a girl myself and I’m in middle school, I am also tall, and these administrators should think about how they are body shaming girls into wearing things that are uncomfortable or can make some girls feel more depressed because she feels like her body is “bad” because of what a principle says. The bottom line is, this is wrong and needs to be fixed.
Zoe Schumacher • Mar 23, 2021 at 10:38 am
It’s so unfair!! I’m in middle school and I don’t have any shorts that got down to the bottom of my fingers! They literally don’t make any and all the girls in my school are constantly dress coded. It’s horrible and unfair. They really need to change it like one boy came to school with no shirt and like no one did anything! Dress code is so unfair to girls. We’re doing argumentative essays and I’m doing mine about why dress code should be changed!!
Savanners • Mar 22, 2021 at 3:01 pm
The male gender has and still is treated higher than the female gender. Why are people doing this to girls when they should back off and get the boys a bit ya know?
Hailey Bieber • Mar 19, 2021 at 12:54 pm
So im here to say I completely agree with you strong ladies! The dress code is completly sexist. I do want to say that while the dress code is completley sexist there are some good parts to it, like the booty shorts rule. I get wearing shorts bc when I go back to school in August its really HOT. I shoudn’t have to wear shorts that come to my finger tips. Not only are those really hard to find, they’re super ugly. Let me know if yall agree with me! I’d love to hear some of yalls thoughts <3!
anonymous • Mar 16, 2021 at 2:11 pm
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Kamya Martin • Mar 12, 2021 at 6:04 pm
I get the whole noting to short in all but why we got to cover up just bc boys wanna be weird and look at us like how is that far that we can even wear off the slouders bc the school bored think that they gona look at are sholders like oh hey your sholders look nice today like what
girls rights • Mar 11, 2021 at 5:09 pm
yes girls should not have to cover their body’s because of boys actions
E • Mar 2, 2021 at 3:12 pm
I think the school dress code is unfair to all girls. The boys don’t even notice or care most of the time. But the boys that do stare need to stop because 1. it makes us feel uncomfortable 2. it’s just weird and not normal. And the boys are just making it harder for us to concentrate too.
Meredith • Mar 1, 2021 at 12:00 pm
I have never been dress-coded in my life but i have seen my friends get it and ITS SO UNFAIR like bruhhhh why cant boys control themselves me and my friends are gonna do a dress-code daay like they are sexualizing us its so stupid they sould teach the boys something.
London • Mar 1, 2021 at 9:29 am
I think this is utterly ridiculous that boys get distracted at girls shoulders?!?!? Like we cant help that they think shoulders are attractive if they think it is attractive make them learn not the girls they don’t deserve this discrimination because boys cant control themselves thank you!
Nina • Feb 26, 2021 at 11:37 am
Ok I am here on this website because i completely agree with you. I feel it is unfair that we have to hide our bodies just because boys sexualize our shoulders or our legs, and even torso. Just because their moms haven’t raised them to not look at us in an inappropriate manner, we can’t wear what we feel is right. I am not skinny by any means, but that doesn’t mean I still don’t want to show off my body, in which I am proud in.
hehehehhehehehhe • Feb 24, 2021 at 4:22 pm
this is not fair :< SO MEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNNN
QUEEN BEE • Feb 24, 2021 at 1:35 pm
Okay so im with most of you people saying our dresscodes are unfair. I will go as far as to say that it is sexist. No matter what a girl is wearing shes going to be looked at. Rather thats for showing ‘to much’, or ‘not enough’.
If been dresscoded for wearing jeans that have had like to holes in then above my kneecap. At my school if you get dresscoded for pants, you have to wear basketball shorts or other clothes from the office. I ended up having to wear basketball shorts that were riding down my legs past my kneecaps a whole class period till could get to my locker. I didnt get looked at when i was wearing my jeans. But let me tell you you dont know how many looks I got wearing those saggy to big basketball shorts.
So in conclusion DRESSCODES SUCK!
I REST MY CASE!
Brianna Q. • Feb 11, 2021 at 9:38 am
Dress code is being sexist it unfair how i have to sit here and watch us girls get dress coded today i went to school Fl i came to school with a tube top and biker shorts i got dress code the teacher said it was ‘distracting the boys’ one thing i noticed was that teacher use your ‘distracting’ the boys it not my fualt! they put the blamed on us grls it unfair i was googling if dress codes take our civil rights an it said ‘Americans also have a right to education, so to maintain a productive learning environment, many schools have instituted dress codes. U.S. courts have ruled that these codes do not violate students’ civil rights, as long as they are consistent and fair.’ As long as they are consistent and fair. Dress code is not fair! the way we dress is how we express our selves
Alex • Feb 4, 2021 at 1:01 pm
this is not ok. we need to do something I think that on the 15 of februrary we all show up with shorts that do not read our finger tips and a tank top. holding a sign saying we have rights and one of them is to stand up to sexism! don’t discriminate us because the boys are apparently more important, well figure it out boys but we aren’t listening to your rules anymore!!!!
anonymous • Feb 1, 2021 at 8:32 pm
i think dress code is VERY UNFAIR, and it’s not even boys that have to worry about it. Girls get dress coded for almost ANYTHING THEY WEAR. For example, when i was in dance class, i had a tank top on that was “2 finger length” and not “3 finger length,” but i had a jacket over it and i got hot while dancing inside, so i asked my teacher if i could take my jacket off but she said no because it wasn’t in the dress code. I also remember when i was in 7th grade, i was wearing a slightly cropped shirt that showed my stomach BARELY, and i got dress coded. Like, how sick is that? It’s also very sexist. Like- how can boys wear tank tops in gym when it’s 90 degrees out and girls cant? Why? Are the shoulders too “revealing”? How come boys can wear shorts shorter than knee-length and girls cant? Seriously? Is it too “distracting” for the boys? I understand that booty shorts shouldn’t be allowed but it’s still SO unfair. Girls basically can’t wear what they want in school and feel good about themselves. Instead, they have to worry about boys being “distracted” and the administration at the school dress coding them. The boys basically cant control where they look so girls have to sacrifice for it? Schools should step it up and grow up and notice that they’re rules are are disgusting. period.
Bethany • Jan 29, 2021 at 3:21 pm
I totally agree with Vicky. I was at school and when i got there my friend got dress coded for wearing a shirt that said “skull rider” while a boy was wearing a sweater that said “pretty little young thang” it’s so unfair
avin moore • Jan 26, 2021 at 9:35 am
Im a boy and i still agree it is targeting girls and it is unfair to them and is not good for how they think of them selves i have seen a friend be sent home all of the time and is not ok
Soha • Jan 15, 2021 at 10:22 am
i also think that dress code is unfair if boys are attracted to shoulders then maybe just maybe its not the girls who are expressing themselves threw there clothes fault
M@?!@h • Jan 7, 2021 at 7:14 pm
school dress code is…….. LIKE SOOOOOOO ANNOYING LIKE UGHHHHH here’s an example: Teacher: Okay class what is this book about?
kid: it is about a dog’s life and turning into a person!
Teacher: “CORRECT!!, okay class this period is almost done start packing your things”!!
class: OKAY MR. potato
class talking: omg ikr, hfjyetgferkufh, yea-, i know we should—hfvgeukgjb
Teacher: okay the bell rings in 5 minutes you guys can talk for a bit, BUT TALK QUIT!
5 MINUTES LATER……
bell: RINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGJHKGUTfyuJOIGUGGGGGGGGG RINGGGG
teacher: bye see you tomorrow! have a good(bad day) day!
*kids walk out of the class*
Teacher: WAIT!……….. ALINA!!!! WHAT IS THAT THAT YOU’RE WEARING??!?!
Alina: umm nothing…. clothes I mean what else would I be wearing ????
Teacher: you’re SHORTS ARE WAY TO SHORT that is the DRESS CODE!!!!! AND YOU’RE GETTING DRESS CODDED
Alina: UGHHHHHHHHH OMG! that’s what you called me for this is so unfair!!
Teacher: I’m calling your mom GO to YOur next class NOW!
KID: OMGGGGG!!!!!
Teacher: KIDS theses days always wanting to argue
Alina: u know I can still hear you right
Teacher: go to class now I am not joking!
Alina: OKAY! * walks to next class mad*
SEE that Is how it is and it is so dumb they don’t do that to the boys in the school so why do they do it to the girls it is really the teacher getting distracted.
John • Dec 29, 2020 at 1:05 am
Well, okay guys should start wearing short shorts and shorter and shorter and I guess you would start dress coding them but they don’t.
BUT THEY SHOULD.
Pogs Poggums • Dec 15, 2020 at 2:11 pm
Dress code is stuid dumby dumb
vicky • Dec 15, 2020 at 12:02 pm
I think its is unfair how people say that girls clothing and style is distracting to boys (and or girls). how we dress is how we express what and who we are! What do you want us to do show up with a winter coat in the spring (or summer). I have never felt so discriminated about who i am ever! That is so disappointing! Showing your shoulder WILL NOT attract boys and simply make them take their eyes of their paper and put eyes on US! Its not like we are showing something much more inappropriate! its unfair how you can show up with a simple sweater and get dress coded. Its unfair how you can show up with a shirt that when you raise your hand it show a little part of your stomach and you get dress coded! I WILL NOT just stand here and watch us girls get dress coded every day! I am sick and tired of this and its time for us girls to stand up for what we feel is RIGHT!!
Addi • Dec 8, 2020 at 6:06 pm
I agree with everyone no one can body shame because when you do then you like the mean cruel one and the one that gets whatever they want! That’s no it how to live life and no one should have to go through that much dress code just because immature, rotten, mean, inappropriate boys!
n • Dec 7, 2020 at 10:30 am
no not fair reeeee <:(
person • Dec 7, 2020 at 10:22 am
Dress code i unfair, kids should be allowed to wear what they want to school and not have to worry about dress code. clothing is a good way to express how they feel and shouldn’t have to be uncomfortable in their own cloths! it needs to change
Paulina Gordillo • Nov 17, 2020 at 12:59 pm
I think that the dress code in almost EVRY school is unfair to girls because not only do boys get to pick what they put on their body and WE have to go shopping for something that doesn’t “distract” boys most of the time, they don’t get distracted by us because of what we are wearing, besides, don’t us girls get distracted by boys no matter what THEY are wearing?
Bella Throne • Nov 17, 2020 at 10:26 am
I think the dress code needs to be changed because it is not a girl’s fault if buys are getting distracted the girls should not have to change the way they like to dress because of boys! Dress code is teaching girls to dress for what works best for Boys! It is way too targeted to girls! Boys and girls styles are very different and all the rules only apply to girls styles!
Emma • Nov 11, 2020 at 10:40 am
I agree with every single girl in this chat right now, because all of us are strong interdependent women who should be able to do and wear what they want.
anonymous • Nov 4, 2020 at 1:20 pm
Schools say that the dress code is fair but really it isn’t. The dress code is so unfair towards girls because I have seen both boys and girls wear tank tops at my school and the teachers might say to the boys, “hey, don’t wear that.” while a girl gets detention and gets dirty looks by the administrators for wearing A TANK TOP! And schools also bring up the argument that it is distracting to male students when female students wear slightly revealing clothing but instead of body shaming these beautiful girls, Let’s have a talk with the boys and let them know that the way they might look at women is disgusting and you shouldn’t get distracted by someone wearing a tank top. It is unfair what these girls have to go through. And on top of that the schools want girl to wear shorts that are down to their fingertips. It is unfair to girls, especially those with long arms. My arms reach my knees so I never wear shorts. And boys shorts usually are much longer than girls shorts for some reason so lots of girls never wear shorts which is very unfair. Instead of body shaming these girls, let’s let them wear what they want because clothing is a way to express yourself, not just another rule to follow.
Sydney • Oct 28, 2020 at 4:43 pm
I do understand why a dress code is needed, however, I don’t think that it needs to affect girls more than boys. Also, I have noticed that a lot of people use the excuse that ¨girls are just distracting to boys¨, but I think that this puts both girls and boys down. This excuse is basically saying that boys cannot control themselves and that it is girl’s fault when boys are distracted and don´t learn. I personally think that this is completely wrong because I have several friends who are either bisexual, pansexual, or lesbian and they have no problem changing in a locker room with girls and are respectful while society is okay with boys being distracted by shoulders or collar bones. Lastly, dress codes are bad because they can exclude trans, genderqueer, and non-binary students.
me • Oct 28, 2020 at 10:26 am
I agree that the dress code should be changed and we should totally do something about it especially for the girls with long arms, it is so not fair for them or any of us, there definitely can be some rules but c’mon this is just too much. It is not our fault that guys act the way they do sometimes.
Jonna Lepisto • Oct 26, 2020 at 8:54 pm
I definitely think the dress code is unfair. I’ve seen it happen right before my own eyes at school. I was sitting in class and it was a hot sunny day. A boy in my class was wearing a tank top. Another girl was wearing a tank top with the sleeves the same length as the boys and my teacher called her up and sent her to the principals office. And for the record the boy was showing more skin because his sleeves went really low. Anyways the girl didn’t come back until 15 minutes later. Those 15 minutes could’ve been spent learning something valuable. Also one more thing whenever I see a girl wearing a tank top or booty shorts, the first thing I notice is her face, not her shoulders or her thighs.
e • Jun 8, 2020 at 8:48 pm
Why do we get punished for a problem that isn’t ours? It isn’t the girls’ fault if we are distracting boys! The boys are gross if they get distracted. If you are wearing a cropped tee teachers will make you put a jacket on because your stomach was too distracting. What if someone was distracting because someone else likes them? Or they are just pretty? What are you going to do then? Girls don’t wear these things for boys. They want to feel cute and pretty to THEMSELVES (this may vary but most girls apply). It’s not our problem so why do they make it ours.
Bella • May 8, 2020 at 5:40 pm
Dress code Is very unfair. Schools should be teaching boys how to control themselves but instead they are teaching girls to be ashamed of themselves. Schools want to educate us but they give us detention for what ??? Expressing and feeling like ourselves?? They are ruining our education for no reason! Boys need to learn to control themselves.
Rachel • May 5, 2020 at 4:41 pm
i think its so unfair to girls! i mean, boys can walk around shirtless, why can’t girls!
and why do we need to wear bras! i don’t get it. it’s so UNFAIR!
Anna • Apr 7, 2020 at 11:37 am
I think it’s very unfair because what is that telling girls? It’s telling them that their body is a problem! So instead of dress coding girls what don’t you idiots teach the boys to control themselves! It’s not that hard, smh.
Hannah • Apr 1, 2020 at 11:36 pm
Dress codes are UNFAIR in fifth grade my friend got dress coded when lying down with her midriff showing and no one even looked at her
Nic • Mar 19, 2020 at 3:57 am
The school dress code is so unfair (sorry I’m late)
I am a tall girl because I have long legs. DO THE IDIOTS THAT MADE THE DRESS CODE KNOW HOW HARD IT IS TO FIND SKIRTS AND SHORTS THAT LONG?
hailey • Mar 3, 2020 at 12:31 pm
TBH yes sometimes girls wear stuff that catches my attention and I’m a Girl! thing is Shoulders aren’t distracting it’s something every human has and then there are the eye catches the booty shorts or short shorts Don’t wear those to school I’m a student and just so you guys know yes sometimes dress codes are sexist against girls but most are trying to fix that thanks for reading!
cheyenne • Feb 26, 2020 at 12:06 pm
It is unfair
Charlotte • Feb 3, 2020 at 4:12 pm
Dress code is so unfair like the boys will wear tank tops that show their shoulders but if we show ours we get a suspension we cant even show our bra straps and sometimes we cant help that our shirt is not all the way up to our neck. One time this girl had to wear a long sleeve turtle neck and pe shorts because She wore an of the shoulder top it was 100 degrees out
Allie W • Dec 11, 2019 at 1:05 pm
All I have to say is… I think the dress code is SUPER unfair (to girls especially) because we basically can’t wear shorts, they have to be “biker shorts” and I have those just I don’t want to wear them ALL the time!! And then, my friend got dress coded because her straps were 2 fingers and not 3. -_-
Kenna • Dec 6, 2019 at 3:55 pm
The dress code is so unfair to girls! Girls get targeted for showing skin at my school. I got dress coded earlier this year for showing my sholders! Yet the guy next to me was showing his sholder s and nothing happend it is ufair!
Daniela • Nov 6, 2019 at 10:49 am
I think that dress codes are extremely unfair, Yes i get that some boys like to “Check out” Girls, but that’s not our problem. Boys also never get dress coded, Girls aren’t allowed to wear basically anything they want to wear but Boys can wear basically whatever they want to wear. This is unfair and schools need to stop being hard on all the Girls
Carla • Oct 23, 2019 at 11:39 am
Thank you so much for bring this issue to our attention the school board is now taking action to end this issue
jessa • Oct 21, 2019 at 12:34 am
i cant wear any shorts i have long arms i am tall now the ripped jeans teachers dont mind at my school any i have had rips like under my underclothing also shirts like i wear darks bras most of the time and u can see them through white and wny light color shirts so i can really only wear dark shirts unless i wear a jacket all day. and teachers are mean i was seeing my 3rd grade teacher and she said wear a longer shirt like im in 5th grade my shirt isent even a crop top. shirts hae to be long enougjt to cover buttons of jeans or the top part of leggings or yoga pants like no one is gonna be distracted by that or sholders showing giys can show there shouldrs but girls cant like im a tall girl and i cant wear any clothes it taked me like half sn hour to find clothes IN THE DRESS CODE but i get it for like 3rd graders but 5th graders not very much and this isent about dress code but MY SWITCH TEACHER SAID I COULDENT GO TO THE BATHROOM FOR AN HOUR AND A HALF WHEN I WAS ON MY PERIOD TWICE i got so mad but then each time she let boys go to the bathroom girls feel insecure and uncomfortable at school couse they cant wear what they want especially when its female teachers and principals too they should get us girls
Autumn • Oct 17, 2019 at 11:10 pm
Yes, it is VERY unfair. First of all, it’s the teachers who are distracted by us, and if the boys DO get distracted then they should be the ones to get in trouble! They shouldn’t have to punish girls for something that boys are doing, and I hope we can get rid of it someday.
Desianna • Oct 16, 2019 at 2:31 pm
Personally.. dress code have a HUGE impact on girls through the beginning of middleschool and the ending of highschool. Like a few days ago I came across this website.. there was this girl who got expelled for not “wearing a bra” and she clearly was wearing a big jacket! Want to know who told on her? It was a group of boys who won’t mind their business! Like- why were they looking down there? Mind ya business >:( It’s disturbing on how boys would actually do that I- That’s so gross, it’s really disappointing on how the ADULTS don’t teach boys how to keep their hands and MINDS to themselves.. PERIODTT (not all boys are like that also)
Potato wedge • Sep 25, 2019 at 4:51 pm
I think dress code is unfair to girls because we should be able to wear what we want and it is not that we want to wear something to show our self off we want to be able to show our shoulders and i do not agree what so ever that a girl should be punished the boys should be the ones being punished they are the ones looking at us so next time i hear somebody tell me dress code Ur jeans have holes above the knee i am going to tell them why you looking pervert
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Allison • Sep 12, 2019 at 7:23 am
In my opinion the dress code is really unfair for girls. I got called in to the office for wearing a crop top that showed barely any skin and only from the front but you couldn’the even see my bellybutton but teachers said it’s too distracting for the boys, but why not boys control themselves just cause girls show their shoulders or barely any skin, I feel like not the way you dress is more important than your education and girls can not express their own style because each one of us have our different styles
jessie • Sep 6, 2019 at 1:55 pm
dress codes are so unfair!!! boys get away with everything..
Chrysanthemum • Aug 17, 2019 at 3:16 pm
I think that most dress codes are unfair because they discriminate gender and often even skin color. I do agree that both boys and girls should cover the chest and stomach area and that like, booty shorts shouldn’t be allowed. But shorts have to be to your knee? You have to cover your entire arm? Seriously?
I live in Texas and it can get extremely hot here, yet my middle school makes girls wear freaking long pants that go past our knees and shirts that cover our necks, arms, and go down to ‘at least your bottom’. Whereas boys, they can wear tanktops and shorts that go less than their midthighs! This is disgusting that girls are forced to cover their entire bodies and risk getting heatstrokes and low self-confidence and much more saddening outcomes, while boys can practically go to school nearly naked and not have two crap given about their clothing articles. We HAVE to do something!
Gillian • May 22, 2019 at 11:06 am
In my opinion, I think the school should instead of having the girls dress unfairly, they should teach the boys how to treat the girls with respect no matter what they’re wearing!!! It’s ridiculous on how girls have to wear something they don’t like because of the boys getting “distracted.” They should really knock some sense into the boys instead of the girls having to do something about it.
DJ • May 21, 2019 at 1:01 pm
Dress codes are so unfair in my school a girl was wearing basicly a diy cut yor own crop top you could see her bra and she was wearing nilons and you could see her undergarmets it was so gross she didnt even get dress coded that same day a boy was wearing a tanktoped shirt that went a little low and a pair of shorts that were above his knee and he got dress coded that same girl the next day litarly wore a pair of shorts that had her but hanging out and another croped top she didnt get dress coded this is so wrong if you agree tell me what you think thanks
Riri • May 9, 2019 at 7:58 pm
I totally agree with you guys. the dress code is unfair. I’m one of those girls that’s getting into trouble every time my shorts are to short or my shirt is too short. What’s funny is that I’m black and there are many girls that are wearing shorts but I get dress coded the most. I hang out with a big crowd and I get noticed a lot about what I wear and I hate it. I just want to wear what I want to wear. I mean guys if our parents lets us wear what ever it is shouldn’t we be able to wear to school. Also guys are also in the state of mind where they want to check you out. It’s cool I think that a guy checks you out but it’s not my fault or any girls that a guy can’t control himself. Like 4real peple!!! It’s annoying and sexist!!!
shorty • Apr 12, 2019 at 12:05 pm
I think it is unfair that you can’t wear a shirt that shows your shoulders because your bra strap shows like no its not are fault that boys can handle them selves
shawntinice • Apr 9, 2019 at 1:22 pm
Dress Code is ridiculous!!! my friends and I will wear strapless shirts or tank tops and we get dress coded ans have to change our shirts!!! my friend goes to a different school then me and if they get dress coded they have to get send home. Honestly dress code is freaking dumb and they should let us wear what we want. I live in Arizona and its hot as hell!!!! but then the guys can wear what they want and not get dress coded.
kayla • Mar 27, 2019 at 11:31 am
instead of teaching girls of what they shouldnt wear, how about teaching boys that GIRLS ARE NOT SEX OBJECTS!!!!!!!!!!
maya • Mar 10, 2019 at 6:59 pm
The dress codes are not fair AT ALL!!! If it’s like 85-90 degrees outside the boys are allowed to wear whatever they want but the girls get in trouble for wearing SHORTS. I mean the boys are wearing shorts why don’t they get in trouble it’s VERY sexist for people to be yelling at girls about wearing short and then telling them to leave the classroom cause they are distracting the boys from doing their work. like it’s hot outside and we can’t wear SHORTS it’s very sexist. it’s not fair for the girls AT ALL!!!!!
brooke • Feb 28, 2019 at 12:17 pm
guys only wear sweats or shorts and pants and any shirt they find on there floor but girls have so many outfits to choose from so when you make this dress code it limits these option. and that’s not fair girls have so many different styles way more than guys do. and i’m not saying all guys have just one style but girls have way more.
i dont think its fair • Feb 21, 2019 at 12:33 pm
i got dresscoded like three times in one week i got dress coded for one wereing boots the second one was having a little bit of my side showing and guess what my shorts were just a tiny bit shorter than my thum and guess what i had to go home and change . the women that did that to me with my boots waas like ” GET OVER HERE UR BOOTS HAVE MORE THAN A CENTIMETER OFF THE GROUND, GO HOME AND CHANGE OR ELSE!!!!
Someone • Feb 6, 2019 at 12:15 pm
But there are so may other clothes that are modest and are comfy, cool for hot weather, and are still cute and don’t show of things. I am part of the church called The Church Of Jesus Christ Of later Day Saints and I where shorts to my knees and shirts with sleeves that cover my shoulder. If I can love through it, you can. I would hate to where short shorts and tank tops becuse I would feel uncomfortable and feel like I couldnt move a lot.
McKenna • Feb 4, 2019 at 2:57 pm
I think the dress code is completely unfair to girls! Boys can get away with anything but girls are being targeted. How are boys distracted by shoulders?
Anna • Jan 28, 2019 at 9:53 am
School dress code???? UNFAIR this is how it goes “a teenage girl rushes to school and just puts on a loose t shirt and sweats. Wen she gets to school she get sent to the principals office because they can see her shoulder and I bet the teacher would be like this… ” NOW CLASS WHAT IS x time….. JESSICA BURBACK IS THAT A SHOULDER I SEE?? DRESS CODE VIOLTION MISS …SO INAPROPRIATE I MEAN HOW OFFENDING THAT I CAN SEE YOUR SHOULDER
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Mckenna • Jan 7, 2019 at 1:16 pm
i have this pair of pants that have one hole above the knee and it hardly shows any skin. I’ve been dress coded for them before but i ignored the warning because it was ridiculous but now i’m being threatened to be expelled if i continue to break the dress code policy. The policy is completely unfair and beats girls down. A girls self-esteem is extremely fragile at this age (13-18) and can be destroyed so easily. especially by someone of authority. the teachers and principles should be telling you you look nice today and being kind but they are beating their students down constantly.
Anna Teslak • Nov 9, 2018 at 12:23 pm
WHAT? Why is every piece of news I find about discrimination?! There is nothing against our gender. It’s only the styles they market towards us! If a boy (or another girl) is distracted by our clothing, do you think it’s their fault that their eyes are drawn to us? Cut it out, people. There is no unfairness or sexism anywhere in this dress code!
unknown • Oct 26, 2018 at 12:44 pm
I think this dress code is unfair.
Eva Berninger • Oct 19, 2018 at 1:01 pm
its unfair to girls i have long arms and my longest shorts are to short. we need to do something about it
Emma Culhane • Oct 19, 2018 at 12:53 pm
I think it is unfair for the girls because in the summer time or if it is very hot some girl might like to wear very short shorts.But boys get to pick whatever they want to wear.
aubrey schepke • Oct 5, 2018 at 3:15 pm
i also think it unfair because anytime you try too where something that you enjoy, like for example a hat or a tan-top. yes, i get the whole boy thing checking you out. but you should be able too express your feelings on how you dress. the dress code do’snt allow you too where a dress above the knees or where shorts that are past your arms. students here at west middle school should be able too do that.
bella • Oct 5, 2018 at 1:05 pm
I think that the dress code is totally unfair. This needs to change!!!!
alie • Sep 26, 2018 at 12:04 pm
i can not where jenes whith wholes above the knees why
Baby • Sep 12, 2018 at 7:24 pm
Dress code is so unfair because we show our uniqueness in our clothing. And some people have long or short arms and what if you’re arms have a disability. So not fair peeps out there
Samantha • Aug 29, 2018 at 11:43 pm
ok so yea i get the whole guys get distracted stuff but seriously there no need to punish girls it completely sick and disgusting that you have to body shame them to cover up bc guys can’t focus like that’s their problem why not you teach a class about it but making girls suffer is horrible because lots of girls have to wear basketball shorts bc there arms are too long so what are you gonna do about it nothing your just gonna punish them because they have a beautiful body but long arms it’s sick it really is so please consider changing this because honestly it’s bad.
isabella maes • Jun 6, 2018 at 8:20 am
Yes, I think that it is very unfair. you say boys might get distracted but we should not have to be taken away from our important classes just because our shorts are not longer then our finger tips. If boys get distracted then they should be the ones who need to be talked to not us! I have to try on almost all of my shorts and, i have really long arms, I cant wear any shorts. its tough to fond a pair of shorts that are not expensive, my style, comfortable and in dress code.
Aylissa • Mar 3, 2022 at 8:18 am
All the dress code is talking about is what girls can’t do boys can do that’s not fair.
lilly • Apr 28, 2022 at 4:02 pm
I also have very long arms and I have to wear shorts to my knees! But people with short arms can wear booty shorts.
lilly • Apr 28, 2022 at 4:05 pm
its not FAIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!